In our Social Circle Mastery seminar Mr. M and I call this the “Golden Rule” for starting a new tree. Go for respect first and popularity second. It’s easy to gain popularity. It’s brutal to earn back the respect that you gave away up front. This applies with guys and girls.

Sometimes you may try to appease an asshole of the group or try to ‘go along to get along’ by doing what you think is popular, but the truth is you are only digging a deeper hole. This goes back to the old ...

Hey guys, 

Cooking is one of my passions, and as I’m beginning to get a little better at getting dates, I want to begin cooking for girls at my place. 

 If anyone has some solid ideas on fun cooking dates, I would love to hear it. I’m also wondering how you structure the date, as in, do you invite the girl over to help cook, do you go out afterward, what night of the week is best for cooking dates, etc. I think this is something that can help a lot of us in the community.

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