In our Social Circle Mastery seminar Mr. M and I call this the “Golden Rule” for starting a new tree. Go for respect first and popularity second. It’s easy to gain popularity. It’s brutal to earn back the respect that you gave away up front. This applies with guys and girls.

Sometimes you may try to appease an asshole of the group or try to ‘go along to get along’ by doing what you think is popular, but the truth is you are only digging a deeper hole. This goes back to the old ...

Before I get into some of the specifics, I want to reassure you that before Love Systems I was not naturally great at social situations. I was never the popular guy in school and my social life since then wasn’t a whirlwind of activity. Braddock’s story is slightly different (and hopefully we can get him to tell it in an upcoming LSi) but the point is that you don’t have to be one of the naturally socially powerful people to succeed with Social Circle Mastery.

Having Social Circle...

Lacking the feeling of abundance makes us change who we are and can even make us sacrifice our values.  We will literally do anything to be loved including changing who we are.

When you meet a guy or girl who has a strong sense of who they are and doesn’t seem to compromise there values or character in any situation or around any person, this is almost always because they have a strong feeling of abundance in their life.

When you have great friends, you will do very little to impr...

Hey guys, 

Cooking is one of my passions, and as I’m beginning to get a little better at getting dates, I want to begin cooking for girls at my place. 

 If anyone has some solid ideas on fun cooking dates, I would love to hear it. I’m also wondering how you structure the date, as in, do you invite the girl over to help cook, do you go out afterward, what night of the week is best for cooking dates, etc. I think this is something that can help a lot of us in the community.

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