In our Social Circle Mastery seminar Mr. M and I call this the “Golden Rule” for starting a new tree. Go for respect first and popularity second. It’s easy to gain popularity. It’s brutal to earn back the respect that you gave away up front. This applies with guys and girls.

Sometimes you may try to appease an asshole of the group or try to ‘go along to get along’ by doing what you think is popular, but the truth is you are only digging a deeper hole. This goes back to the old ...

Lacking the feeling of abundance makes us change who we are and can even make us sacrifice our values.  We will literally do anything to be loved including changing who we are.

When you meet a guy or girl who has a strong sense of who they are and doesn’t seem to compromise there values or character in any situation or around any person, this is almost always because they have a strong feeling of abundance in their life.

When you have great friends, you will do very little to impr...