When you get a new phone number here are a few Phone and text game tips:

Don’t try to push to fast to meet up unless you can tell it feels right.  When you push to meet up right away and you text far to much, you seem needy.  It creates a bad vibe.  Have you ever had a girl do that?  If you two didn’t have an amazing connection right away, it feels like she is desperate.  It’s a turn off and you can feel yourself losing interest.

Change your mindset.  Think, “We’ll meet up.  There is no rush. Lets flirt, play, have fun…. Meeting up is a given, so I’m not going to be pushy about it.”

How to text girls? Try texting with no obvious agenda.  She knows you are texting to meet up. You will eventually hint/directly ask her out.  Sometimes that can happen right away, but more often than not, you need to flirt and build it up a little.

This isn’t always true.  Social Circle settings or Cold Approach that went extremely well or girls that see you as a catch and hope you like them will respond well to inviting right away.

It takes some time to get the timing down of when to ask a girl out or to meet up through text, so go mess it up a bunch of times and play with what I said above.

Just remember the mind set is, “I assume meeting up is inevitable, I assume she is attracted to me, I’m going to build some anticipation and make this even more comfortable by not being pushy or coming across needy. I’m going to to flirt and hint at meeting up when it feels right.  If for whatever reason she can’t then, no big deal.  Back to flirting.  I have no time table with this. I’m dating. I’m talking to other girls, so any one girl I feel no pressure to meet up with “right now.”  Sooner the better, but whatever.  This week…1 month from now… no big deal.”

Just be patiently persistent, without begging, whining, or over chasing.  Just flirt.  Make statements…ask questions. Send her funny pictures…..tease her…use callback humor from when you met etc..

The more of this you do, the more likely she will eventually want to meet up with you.

Next fucking caller,

-Braddock